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Last summer my longtime partner and I finally called it quits. The split had been brewing for a while, the spark was not there anymore and although we (mainly ME) tried, it could not reignite. This was something I personally had been dreading, not because my relationship was fulfilling or enjoyable- but because I am terrified of being alone. This fear has lead to many years in therapy and countless relationships continued past their expiration dates. But finally I had had enough and decided to reclaim my sovereignty and head out on my own. Desperate to leave the sorrowful, frigid Midwest, I hightailed it to sunny south Florida.

I knew not a soul, had no male companion or any companionship for that matter. Just an aching need to see  if I could make it on my own, and start my life all over in a new state. The first few months were a joy, filled with simple pleasures. Living 2 miles from the beach, I would spend my days in the sun, swimming, drinking cocktails and people watching.  My father left us kids pretty hefty trust funds when he died, so I haven’t had to work since I was in my early 20’s. This allowed me to ease into my new surroundings without having to worry right away about finding a job. I was just soaking it all in. Nights spent alone but content, at hotel bars or eating a quiet dinner on the balcony of my seaside condo, all was well– until it wasn’t. I woke one morning with an old familiar feeling, of loneliness, of longing. I was all by myself here, and my simple life with its simple, solitary pleasures suddenly felt terrifying.

South Florida, with its host of beaches, bars and natural beauty, got lonely. I had spent my first few months here just happy to be away from my repressive relationship, but now I needed more. I had learned much about myself and was ready for companionship. Where to turn? Surfing the web late one night, I stumbled across Cowboys4angels, a nationwide straight-male companion service. I was hesitant at first. But then I thought about how I had been on every dating app for the last few weeks, to no avail. All the men were too young, too dumb, and did not seem my type at all. Also, I’ll admit, I was afraid. Dating really scared me since my breakup and I developed a bit of a complex, I wasn’t sure if I could do it. Maybe I was doomed to spend all my nights alone.

 

After some encouraging words from my best friend, who as it turns out, had been using Cowboys4angels for years (!!!!), with great success, I decided to give it a try. I had the time, the need, and the means to live an exciting life- but no one to share it with! What a waste. I decided to make my move. My eyes ultimately on Francis. Looking handsome and refined, he jumped off the page and I felt I had to meet him, caution to the wind! Booking a date with this straight male companion was easy as pie, and I took it as a sign that this was meant to be. Nervous as I was, I was lonely, and needed male companionship.

Francis came to meet me at the Hyatt on Fort Lauderdale Beach, and all my anxiety went out the window. I immediately felt  comfortable in his presence. I told him my story over drinks and dinner, and he listened intently as I recounted my last few years and their hardships. Just speaking them made me feel instantly lighter and less burdened. The date was supposed to be just dinner but we ended up having a whole weekend getaway! South Florida is amazing because you can quickly take a staycation that feels like you’ve left for a tropical island, but you’re two miles from your home! I decided last minute to book Francis for the weekend, and that process was simple and easy too. We lounged by the pool, got massages, ate good food and drank until sunset. I felt alive, I felt confident and no longer alone. All I needed was some refreshing male companionship!

 

It has been 2 years since my introduction to Cowboys4angels and my life has changed dramatically. I realized I am not ready for another relationship, but I do need a male companion every once in a while, to clear my mind and relax. All the South Florida male companions are the best, Clay, Juan, Edward- you name it!  Cowboys4angels, the number one straight-male companion company in the country, gives me exactly what I need. I don’t want commitment, but when I need company, I just go over the site, see who catches my eye, and book! It’s always a great evening, or weekend, or week- whatever I want! Now that’s empowerment!

 

 

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