This week, Marie Claire published an interview with our own Vin Armani. In the article, Vin, one of the resident Las Vegas Cowboys that star in the popular Showtime series “Gigolos,” opened up about what life is like as a male companion.  And he should know.

Vin was active in the Los Angeles Seduction Community before joining Cowboys 4 Angels and has been starring in the series since it started. He has closely studied the art of attraction and seduction, has a philosophy degree from Howard University, and is the author of the book Tao of the Gigolo. Who better to provide a glimpse into the world of the male companion?

Cowboys 4 Angels has guys for rent for any occasion. The world’s best elite straight male companions are in 12 cities and available for travel anywhere when expenses are paid. You have your choice of the most gorgeous, fit, educated gentlemen in the business. Our men are multi-talented and have very diverse hobbies and pursuits, making them the perfect date for any situation. But be prepared, because once you have an experience with one of our men, you’ll be hooked.

According to Vin, “A lot of my clients tell me, “you’re like a drug.” I understand that. It’s an aspect of seduction. There’s a consciousness shift when they’re with me—as in, they’re having an experience that’s literally altering their consciousness, delivering the endorphins and hormones associated with love. It’s like having a cocktail that they want to drink over and over again.”

Any why wouldn’t you, given how versatile our men are? Do you have an important event to attend and need a date? We’ve got you covered. It doesn’t matter if it is an important business event, class reunion, wedding, or a family gathering where you don’t want to get more questions about why you haven’t found a nice man. Do you need someone to accompany you on vacation? Want to do a weekend getaway? We’ve got you covered. Our men are well-traveled and very cultured. They can help you get the most out of your travels, especially in areas where they have traveled before.

Do you have a special birthday you are celebrating? Our guys can help to make it even more special. Are you hosting a friend’s bachelorette party? The Cowboys are especially skilled at send offs for women headed to matrimonial bliss, and their dancing skills are off the charts.

Maybe you have been through some sort of difficulty – whether loss, divorce, or a bad experience. Our Male Escort Agency prides itself on having men who are tender, compassionate, caring, and attentive. They will nurse you through whatever you are experiencing and help you come out of it resilient, strong, and ready to live life to its fullest with a renewed faith in men.

Are you looking to do something new, adventurous or completely out of character for you? Our men can be the perfect partner in crime. They are fun, fit and adventurous. No fear here! Do you want to explore a long-hidden fantasy? We can help. Our male companions are up for just about anything.

The simple fact is, whether the event or situation is something routine or unique, we have the perfect guy for rent. You can have all of the attention, romance and excitement without any of the hassle. We pride ourselves on being the best in the industry, and it shows in our men. They are sophisticated and wise beyond their years. They are educated, talented and successful. Whether successful in their career as a businessman, fitness coach, model or entrepreneur, our Cowboys are uniquely gifted with a variety of strengths and talents. They are genuine and down to earth, so there won’t be any lack of conversation. Likewise, be prepared for plenty of laughter too.

Best of all, this comes without the complications of dating or relationships. It is a given set of time to step out of reality and be completely in the moment without worry. Clients know this isn’t a long-term relationship that leads to marriage and kids. Vin says, “That would be like going to Disneyland and thinking you’re going to live there without paying. There’s a ticket price and a closing time.”

Instead, you get a period of time where you can sit back and relax and feel appreciated, pampered and protected. Our men truly love women – all women – and can see and appreciate the rare beauty in each person’s uniqueness elegance and class. You choose the man, the place, the situation and just sit back and let us take care of the rest. You truly get to have your cake and eat it too. By this I mean, you get to live your real life, yet infuse parts that feel like a dream. You get to act like your real self while feeling like your ideal self. Your Cowboy experience allows you to create wonderful memories that you can carry with you long past the actual moment itself.

You will feel empowered and in control, having the luxurious freedom to do something for yourself without having to justify it. Vin believes 100% that the companion experience is empowering for women, because his clients tell him that all the time. “Ultimately it’s a shot at being wanted, of feeling valuable, and feeling it deeply. To know, ‘Someone in this world thinks that I am fantastic and dammit, I am fantastic.’ We all need that.”

Indeed, we do. And we pride ourselves on and have a lifelong goal to continuously make women happy. We want to be the boost in your confidence and the pep in your step. We want to be the reason you smile when a sweet memory crosses your mind out of the blue. Moreover, we want you to believe you deserve to be the center of attention – admired, pampered, and romanced – because you do. Every woman deserves to feel special, because you are. And our mission every day is to prove that.

So give yourself the gift that keeps giving back to you. You deserve it!

Sheila smiled as she watched her children playing without a care in the world. Secretly she wished she could feel that carefree. The past year had been tough with the divorce, but she was glad to see it had minimal effect on the kids. It definitely took a toll on her though.

After 12 years, it felt strange to no longer be married. Granted things had been rocky for a while, but there was still an ease of familiarity with her ex that made things comfortable. She was struggling to find her footing in this new world of single life. It was a lot of effort to go out and meet new people and try to figure out who could be trusted, especially since she had been off the market for so long. The whole dating scene had totally changed.

Thursday at lunch, Sheila had confided to her friend Amanda that she needed a getaway to just relax. She was thinking of heading to Vegas for a weekend when John had the kids. Amanda felt sorry for Sheila and the awkwardness she was feeling with her new situation.

“Let me know when you are planning to go to Vegas. I know someone out there who can show you around and make sure you have a great time.”

A few days later, Sheila did all the planning required to secure her weekend trip to Vegas in three weeks when Mark had the kids again. She told Amanda about her plans. Amanda was almost as excited as she was.

“Great! I will let my friend know and arrange for you two to meet.”

“I don’t need you trying to play matchmaker, Amanda. I’m still smarting from my marriage ending.”

‘I wouldn’t do that. But this will ensure you someone who knows the town to show you around.”

As the time for her trip got closer, Sheila had to admit she was getting excited about it. It will be nice to unplug from home life for a couple days. She would unwind and relax on Friday with a massage and some spa time after she arrived. And Amanda had arranged for Sheila to meet her friend James on Saturday. She really hoped the trip turned out as well as she hoped it might.

Sheila arrived in Vegas around 4pm on Friday and went straight to the hotel. She stopped in the room to drop off her luggage and then headed to the spa. She had a wonderful massage and pedicure that totally relaxed her. When she returned to her room, she felt like a limp noodle and didn’t feel like going back out. So she ordered room service and then admired the Vegas strip from her window. The city bustled below. She needed this trip more than she cared to admit. As she sipped her wine and looked over the Vegas strip, her mind wandered to thinking about the next day. She was curious about James, this friend of Amanda’s. She wondered what he would be like. It has been so long since she has been in the company of a new male, so the thought made her a little nervous and excited all at the same time, especially since Amanda had been so vague when discussing him. Well, she would find out for herself soon enough since they were set to meet tomorrow morning. As she snuggled into the crisp, white linens, the bed cradled her like a cloud, and she drifted off with James on her mind.

Sheila woke up refreshed the next morning. Today would certainly be an adventure. All she had been told about today was to prepare for some hiking activity during the day and then Vegas nightlife in the evening. It was a little unnerving leaving everything in the hands of someone else. At the same time, she had to admit it felt nice to not worry about making plans.

She grabbed a quick bite for breakfast and then got herself ready for the day. James knocked at her door right on time at 9:00am. The butterflies Sheila had in her stomach turned into the running of the bulls as she prepared to open the door.

The vision of James that greeted her made her catch her breath. James was smoking hot in cargo shorts and a t-shirt as he smiled and greeted her with a rose. “Nice to meet you Sheila,” he said. Are you ready to start your Vegas adventure?”

Sheila could barely answer, but managed to squeak out a “Yes.”

They headed out to the car and started the adventure.  On the drive, James explained they were headed to the Red Rock Canyon National Conservation to hike the Keystone Thrust trails. “I hope you’re up for it,” he gently chides. Before she could stop from saying it, Sheila responded, “I’m up for anything with you.”

The trails were gorgeous! The rock formations were tall and rugged, much like James. No matter the path, the rocks seems colorful and painted, almost as if the desert came alive. James helped Sheila steady herself on the more rugged parts of the trail. James holding her hand or placing his hand on the small of her back to steady her made Sheila feel things she hadn’t felt for a while. Her skin tingled and a warmth radiated through her that wasn’t from the surrounding heat. It was James reigniting a fire inside of her that she thought was dead. The morning passed quickly as they enjoyed the beauty around them.

By mid-afternoon they were back at the hotel. They cleaned up from their hiking workout and then hit the strip to see what Vegas was all about. They grabbed a quick lunch at Raku Grill, a Japanese charcoal grill restaurant James knows well, that’s virtually unknown to tourists. Then they set off to explore the posh hotels, looking at the beautiful fountains and artwork at the renowned Bellagio, and taking a gondola ride at the Venetian. The gondola ride was absolutely romantic and magical. As Sheila reclined against James in the back of a gondola, she felt like she was living a dream because she couldn’t believe she was in the arms of of this very sexy man. She could feel his breath on her ear as the gondola was gliding across the water, and the heat she felt welling up inside of her made the rest of the world disappear. The afternoon flew by, and before they knew it, it was time to get ready for an evening on the strip.

Sheila picked her outfit carefully, wanting to impress her sexy date. Taking a final glance at herself in the mirror, she felt pretty for the first time in a long time. When James saw her step out of the room, he let out a whistle. “Wow Sheila, you look amazing,” he said as he spun her around. She blushed, unaccustomed to receiving compliments.

If she knew how to whistle, she would have done the same looking at James, the Adonis before her. He looked as if he had stepped right off the pages of GQ Magazine in his khaki pants and crisp shirt, unbuttoned just enough to cause Sheila’s imagination to roam.

Their first stop was dinner at the Alize restaurant. Enjoying a glass of wine to start, Sheila admired the breathtaking view. She ordered the pan-seared Maine lobster, while James picked the tea-soaked duck breast. While waiting for their food, they chatted about the fun they had over the course of the day.

James looked intently at Sheila and asked her why she came to Vegas. She hesitated before replying quietly that she had needed a getaway. Curious about the fragile beauty before him, James prodded further. “What are you trying to escape?” The question made Sheila look down and get teary-eyed. She wasn’t sure how to answer the question, but in looking at James, he seemed sincere in truly wanting to know. His genuine concern for her made Sheila relax and she opened up about her painful divorce and feeling lost in navigating her future. James gently held her hand and said he was sorry she had to go through that. “That’s in the past, and with your inner and outer beauty, I know you have a bright future ahead of you.” Sheila blushed again.

Dinner was delicious, and after they finished, James told Sheila he had a surprise for her. “Oh, what’s the surprise?” He replied, “You’ll have to just wait and see.” They headed out to the strip, and before she knew it, they were at the New York, New York Hotel.

Sheila practically squealed when she saw they were going to a Cirque de Soleil show. She had always wanted to see one of their shows with the daring acrobatics. She had never heard of the show Zumanity. They settled into their seats which were actually on a red velvet couch. The lights went down, and Sheila felt James take her hand. As the show unfolded before them, Sheila could feel the red creep up her neck. This show was not your normal Cirque de Soleil show. It was Cirque acrobatics with a sexual bent. It was daring, revealing, hilarious, raunchy and fascinating all at the same time. Sheila felt the stirrings that James had reignited in the morning become a raging inferno inside of her as she watched the bodies of the performers bend, twist and slide all around each other to a hypnotizing beat. Her fiery, wanton core made her squirm just a bit in her seat. She became intensely aware of James’s arm around her shoulder and the heat radiating from his body. “This is exactly the re-awakening you need to get you back in the groove,” he whispered in her ear.

After the show, Sheila was acutely aware of the fire burning within her now. Back at the hotel, they grabbed a glass of wine and admired the view of the strip below. James’s strong arms were around her as she leaned back against his chiseled chest. As the heat of his breath brushed her neck, the heat inside her erupted into a fireball that consumed them both, while the rest of the world faded away.

Back home, Sheila was getting the kids back into their routine to get ready for the coming week. Amanda stopped by, anxious to find out how her Vegas trip went.

“So, how was it? Tell me everything.”

Sheila told her she had an amazing time. But it was time to ask the burning question she had.

“Tell me how you know your friend James. Spill the beans.”

“Well, I have a confession to make,” Amanda said coyly. “James is a male companion from the agency Cowboys 4 Angels that I hired to show you around Vegas because I knew you wouldn’t go out and do anything on your own. I wanted your trip to be amazing, and I have used their companions before. Please don’t be mad at me!”

Sheila laughed as she hugged Amanda. “I’m not mad at you. Thank you for being an amazing friend!”

Shana is an investigative journalist and prides herself on being able to get to the bottom of a story. She is relentless in digging up dirt and exposing the truth about companies with questionable business practices. She has been hearing so much about this straight male companion agency Cowboys 4 Angels and their Showtime series Gigolos lately, that she decides she needs to check it out for a scoop. These guys can’t possibly be all that they are billed to be. There has to be something more to the story, and she is going to figure out what it is.

Shana believes a good journalist always does their research, and that is something she never compromises on. She checks out the agency’s website, www.cowboys4angels.com. The first thing she sees is the photos and bios of the Las Vegas companions who star on the Showtime series Gigolos – Bradley Lords, Nick Hawk, and Vin Armani. These men seem entirely too perfect! They are not only good looking, but supposedly accomplished entrepreneurs too. In her business, Shana has learned that if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. As she strolls through the gallery of Cowboys, she sees more photos of gorgeous men who are accomplished models, artists and athletes. Ever the skeptic, Shana couldn’t help but think that there is no way one man can gather this many amazing men into one companion agency. Why would they all want to do this?

A look at the company page introduces her to the CEO and lead Cowboy, Garren James. He boasts an impressive resume. More importantly, the page gives his philosophy on the purpose of the agency and attesting to the quality of the men. Garren claims they are the best in the industry, being selected for their warmth, appearance, intelligence, humor and charm. Ultimately, he promises exclusive male companionship for a healthy distraction with no strings attached.

She was impressed with the quality of the men and the amount of press the agency has received after going through the whole website. But as a journalist, she had to believe there had to be more to the Cowboys 4 Angels story. The only way she could dig deeper into the agency and its story would be to book an appointment for herself, see what happened, and write her story.

She chooses Las Vegas Male Escort, Bradley Lords. He is a classic pretty boy with small town charm and was a Marine. Shana can’t possible understand why someone with that type of resume would want to do this for a living. She figures he will be the perfect candidate to test as a representative for the agency.

Shana studied everything she could about Bradley in preparation for her appointment with him, but even her prep couldn’t prepare her for his dazzling smile and twinkling green eyes when he arrived. He was even more gorgeous than his photographs. Shana was totally caught off guard at the electricity that ran up her arm when he took her hand in introduction.

Bradley had planned a packed itinerary for them, so they headed out to the Vegas strip. On their walk they approached a ferris wheel that provides vantage points overlooking the city. The adventurous side of Bradley convinced Shana to ride it despite her fear of heights. He was very persuasive. Shana was terrified, so Bradley held her hand throughout the ride and put a protective arm around her. She found herself leaning into him as they took in the breathtaking view of the city. Despite her fear, Shana found she totally enjoyed the thrill of the ride.

Next up, they viewed the beautiful fountains and artwork at the renowned Bellagio, taking a break to have dinner at their world-famous buffet. Over dinner, they talked – really talked. Shana found that Bradley was well read, well traveled and very knowledgeable. Their conversation went from fun and light-hearted to deep and serious, and then back again. Bradley asked deep, thoughtful questions and waited in earnest for her answers. He was truly interested in what she had to say. Shana realized she had been so focused on how Bradley looked when she was doing her research, she didn’t stop to consider that he is a real and genuine person. Bradley is incredibly intelligent, really insightful, and very gentle in nature. She could tell that he travels as a Marine had shaped him.

After dinner, they went to the Venetian and took a romantic and magical indoor gondola ride. Shana found herself reclining in the back of the gondola in Bradley’s arms, totally relaxed and enjoying the moment. When Bradley kissed the side of her neck, Shana felt tingles that went all the way down to her toes. It was completely magical!

They finished off the evening in true Sin City style at Tao, the most sizzling nightclub in the country. The music pulsed through them as they swayed in time with the music. Bradley was an excellent dancer, and Shana felt totally comfortable in his arms. The heat between them rose as they danced the night away, making the hot night air even hotter.

In the morning, Shana looked over the notes she had started when she initially did her research on Cowboys 4 Angels and Bradley. She crumpled them up and threw them in the trash. It was the first time she found herself happy about a story not working out.

Shana had felt extremely comfortable with Bradley. Their conversations were so easy, as if they already knew each other. He has a genuine love of people that is so obvious. Bradley is a gorgeous man, inside and out, who can relate to women of all types. After traveling the world defending freedom, he is confident and well-versed. He has no fear, so he enjoys pushing the envelope. He can be a ball of fun, or soft and sweet, or he can go deep in discussion and thought. And that smoldering gaze – oh my!

Cowboys 4 Angels is everything it claims to be and then some. And the Cowboys themselves are top notch. Her evening with Bradley showed her that you can’t judge a book by its cover and make presumptions about people. You have to take the time to get to know them on a more intimate level. These male companions really do want to make the women who schedule appointments with them happy.

Shana’s story may be ruined, but she is already planning to do more personal research on Bradley. She can’t wait to see what else she can discover about him.

Happy Gigolos Day, Angels! It looks like you aren’t the only ones wondering about whether there will be a Season 7 of the Gigolos series on Showtime. Reality Blurred just published an article the other day exploring that same topic after watching our social media posts over the holidays.

So we guess inquiring minds want to know! You Angels are at the top of our list, so you know we’ll tell you first as soon as we know. As of yet, there is nothing to announce.  However, take heart ladies, because the signs look promising.

When asked about the future of Gigolos, Showtime’s programming president, Gary Levine, said, “We don’t have plans at the moment, but Gigolos is for us an evergreen. We love Gigolos. We’re always talking to those producers, Jay and Tony, who we love. And I wouldn’t be surprised if we see more Gigolos.”

When you look at the fact that Season 6 aired two years after Season 5, I guess we just need to be patient. The good news though, is that all of the Gigolos episodes from Season 1 through Season 6 are available on Showtime for viewing at any time. Catch up on ones you missed. Watch them over again. Do a little binge-watching for excitement one night.

The even better news is, you don’t have to wait for a new season to see the Gigolos. Book a trip to Vegas and schedule an appointment with one of these elite male companions. Get to know their backgrounds here, and then get to know them in person one-on-one. Trust us, you’ll love your time with a Cowboy.

Ash has worked as an international model most of his life. He is now specializing in the art of massage. He has trained in many body arts from India, the Orient and indigenous folk traditions, as well as ultramodern skills from western masters and the sensuous edges of science. His knowledge of the sensual arts is second to none and is the reason why he started his own set of videos on the topic.

Bradley Lords

Born and raised in Tennessee, Bradley served in the US Marine Corps before earning a degree in business and marketing.  A distinguished swimwear/underwear model and fitness expert, he is well traveled and loves all types of outdoor sports, especially around water. He has been working on his physique extra hard lately, so he just keeps getting better and better.

Nick Hawk

Nick strives to be the best in all he does. TV and radio personality, motivational speaker, recording artist, published author and leader of inspiration. Nick is also a certified personal trainer, nutritionist, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu World Champion and brown belt. He served four years in the Air Force and has a degree in English. He loves to travel, wakeboard, surf, snowboard, hike and is dive certified. Nick is a true entrepreneur who has seen success in so many avenues including author, artist, and musician.

Vin Armani

A unique and exotic ethnic mix of French, Black, and Latin, Vin is well read and highly educated, holding a degree in Philosophy from a prestigious East Coast University. He is well traveled and has a passion for learning and has a deep appreciation for art, music, history and culture. He is a hands down favorite because he is just so grounded, down to earth and nice.

 

Selena let out a slow sigh. Glancing out her window, the city buzzed on the street below, but she had no energy. She was tired. And if she stopped to admit it, she was lonely. She was existing, not living.

It had been two years since her husband died after a sudden, short illness. In response, Selena passed the time by throwing herself into her work as a financial analyst. Being a workaholic for 60 hours a week had certainly worked to her advantage. Her hard work earned her a promotion to Vice President at the firm, which will mean even more work. The coping strategy she had adopted was spinning out of control.

At lunch with her friend Maria the next day, she shared her feelings. She just wanted to have some fun for a change. It had been so long, that she really felt like she had forgotten how. What Maria told her next shocked her. She had used the services of a male companion agency named Cowboys 4 Angels when she needed a date for an important event. She suggested Selena consider taking a weekend getaway and get a male companion to go with her. Selena rejected the idea outright.

“Are you crazy? I can’t do something like that!”

“You most certainly can, and you should! You deserve it.”

At home that night, Selena couldn’t stop thinking about what Maria had said. Her curiosity was getting the best of her. So she Googled Cowboys 4 Angels. Wow! She was shocked at the gorgeous men that stared back at her from the screen. Damn, no wonder Maria used them! She scrolled through bios of the men employed by the agency. They were not only gorgeous but also well accomplished. Maybe Maria was right. Maybe she did deserve to live a little.

She called Garren James, the CEO of the agency, and spoke with him. Talking with him put her totally at ease about using his agency, and by the end of the call Selena had booked a reservation. Her companion would come down from New York to pick her up for a weekend getaway.

The week leading into the weekend flew by. Selena wasn’t sure where the time went. She was both excited and nervous going into the weekend. Several times she was tempted to cancel, but there was a side of her that knew she needed this.

Her heart raced when she heard the doorbell ring. As she opened the door, she almost couldn’t speak. Mark was breathtaking! His brown eyes sparkled as he smiled and handed her a rose.

“Your chariot awaits my queen to whisk you away for the weekend.”

“Your queen is ready,” Selena replied. And she grabbed her bag and headed to the car. Working in Washington, DC was exhausting, so they were heading West to a little cabin on the Appalachian Trail.

The drive was relaxing and the conversation flowed easily. They chatted as if they had known each other for years, and before they knew it, they were pulling up to the cabin. They dropped their bags inside, freshened up, and headed out to take a drive along Skyline Drive.

The sun was shining on the multicolored leaves as they drove and stopped at the overlook areas. The scenery was breathtaking. Mark put his arms around Selena as they looked out at the beauty before them. They breathed in the crisp air as he nuzzled her ear and neck. Selena felt the tingles go all the way down her spine to her toes. She also felt relaxed.

As the sun started to wane, they headed back into town and went to a local pub for dinner. They chatted and laughed over wine. The food was delicious, and Selena hadn’t laughed so much in a long time. Back at the cabin, they sat out on the back porch by the  outdoor fireplace drinking more wine. They looked up at the stars, and the heat from the fireplace couldn’t compare to the heat between Mark and Selena. Sparks flew in the air like static. Mark brushed a hair from her eye and his hand lingered on her cheek. She felt his breath on her ear and flushed. She felt like she couldn’t breathe. As he leaned in to her, everything else around them faded to black.

When Selena woke in the morning, she stretched in the bed, feeling refreshed and energized. Mark had already gotten breakfast for them and set it up on the table.

“Get up sleepy head, unless you want breakfast in bed!

Selena jumped up. She was starving. After breakfast, they headed out on an adventure to explore some local caverns. Selena felt almost like a kid — carefree and happy. They played explorers romping through the caverns. Mark kept a protective hand on Selena’s hand and back to be sure she didn’t lose her footing. She felt safe and cared for, something she hadn’t felt since her husband passed.

Once back at the cabin, they relaxed in the hot tub, sipping wine and talking. Mark whispered in Selena’s ear, causing her to blush. The heat and the water bubbled up, steam surrounding them in a veil of privacy.

As they drove back to Washington, DC the following day, Selena felt alive and happy. It felt really good to feel alive again. And it was all thanks to a Cowboy who came to the city.

As 2016 is coming to a close, do a review of how your year went. Were you happy with it?  What do you want to do differently next year?  What do you want 2017 to bring you?

Tonight we are on the edge of a brand new year. That’s exciting! It means you have a clean slate and 12 fresh months in front of you to paint whatever picture you want. To help, we have compiled a list of 15 sexy New Year’s resolutions that can make 2017 the best year ever!

1. Love your body. Accept your sexy self.

2. Schedule an evening with a Cowboy pampering you.

3. Show your sexy side. Confidence is sexy. Own it!

4. Read the sexy Cowboys 4 Angels blogs each week.

5. Have a fashion show. Don’t let your lingerie gather dust.

6. Take a weekend getaway with your favorite Cowboy.

7. Let loose and up the excitement this year. No holding back.

8. Make yourself a priority.

9. Try something new. Be adventurous.

10. Don’t make excuses. You deserve to have what you want and be happy.

11. Take a week vacation with a Cowboy companion.

12. Make your fantasies a reality. Be spontaneous

13. Try talking dirty. Forget about embarrassment. It’s fun

14. Be more assertive. Don’t be afraid to initiate.

15. Try something new (with your favorite Cowboy). We’d love to help with that!

Sophia hates the holiday time period. Not only is she going to be super busy, but there are so many corporate parties to attend. Ugh! She hates corporate functions. It’s not so much the functions, but more the fact that they are always a reminder of how alone she is. She always seems to be the one person who shows up alone while everyone else has someone with them. Unfortunately, not attending isn’t an option.

Being a busy executive for a major corporation leaves little time for a social life. Sixty-hour work weeks just aren’t conducive to starting or maintaining a relationship. But just once, she would like to have a hot man on her arm as she arrived at a corporate party so it wouldn’t look like work was her life (even though that is true). Sophia wondered if she could hire a date for the party that was the right caliber individual and would be convincing.

Should she consider hiring a male companion? You bet! After years of going it alone, she was tired of being viewed with pity. A quick online search pulled up several companies that provide companions. Hmmm, Cowboys4Angels – catchy name. As she perused the photos, she couldn’t help but be impressed by the quality of the men she was seeing. And the best part of all, they had companions in Los Angeles! That cinched the deal for Sophia. This year, she would not enter the corporate holiday party alone. This year she would enter with Romeo on her arm. She could hardly contain her excitement as she called to make the arrangements.

Busy as she was, Sophia found herself sneaking looks at Romeo’s photos intermittently over next few days and imagining what it would be like going to the party with him. More importantly, she tried to figure out how would she explain him to everyone else?! She decided to let their imaginations try to figure it out. No need to explain anything to anyone.

On the day of the party, Sophia was actually a bit nervous, which is strange for the person who has brokered several million dollar deals. This was different though, and she was feeling a mix of excitement and anticipation in addition to being mildly nervous. She picked out the perfect dress – a deep red velvet wrap-around dress trimmed in lace that hugged her curves and had just the right amount of plunge in front and back. And she was able to wear her favorite pair of killer heels since Romeo is over six feet tall.

She had already provided all of the party details when she made her appointment, so tonight she could just focus on making sure she looked perfect. Sizing herself up in the mirror, Sophia had to admit she had done pretty well in picking her outfit. As she slipped on her earrings, the doorbell rang. Her heart skipped a beat, and she flushed just a little bit. Romeo was right on time.

As Sophia opened the door, her breath caught in her throat. Romeo was the image of perfection standing there in his suit. His hazel eyes twinkled as he greeted her by extending a rose. He took in her beauty and let out a low whistle. Sophia’s hand trembled as she reached to accept his offering. She felt electricity go from her hand to her very core as her hand brushed his. She grabbed her wrap, and they were on their way.

Ever the gentleman, Romeo opened the car door for her and helped her in. Their conversation was easy as they chatted about work and the holidays on the way to the venue. With an Industrial Engineering degree, Romeo would have no problem fitting in and talking with the men at this party. Pulling up to the valet at the door, Romeo got out and came around to open her car door. He reached for her hand and once again she felt the same electricity hit her and nearly melt her insides.

As they prepared to enter the ballroom, Romeo placed his arm around her waist and leaned in to whisper in her ear.

“You look stunning, and every woman at this party will be jealous.”

Sophia practically floated through the door from that one whisper. She could tell that many people looked as they entered, and she could especially see her female co-workers react. She was loving the reaction! Let them talk. She was feeling on top of the world at the moment.

Romeo grabbed a cocktail for both of them from the bar and then they circulated the room. Romeo had no trouble talking up the executives in attendance, and his outgoing, friendly demeanor won over even the coldest of them. Sophia felt totally at ease as Romeo held her hand when they navigated the room. She could feel everyone watching her and was sure they were shocked she wasn’t alone this year.

With cocktail hour complete, they found their table for dinner. Romeo pulled out her chair, and while she sat, he whispered in her ear, “You are the belle of the ball, my dear. Everyone is watching you.” She blushed just a little as her insides warmed with the thought.

Dinner was blur as conversation swirled around inventions, acquisitions and mergers. Even at a party, work was always the topic. Once dinner was complete though, the atmosphere lightened up as the band started to play. Time to have some fun. Usually she spent every year on the sidelines watching everyone else have fun.

Romeo took her hand and led her to the dance floor. It had been a long time since she danced with anyone, but there was definite energy with Romeo. Sophia could feel a lot of eyes on her and briefly felt subconscious, but Romeo’s touch brought her back into the moment. They swayed and twirled to the beat of the music and she felt like Cinderella at the ball. When the music slowed, Romeo slid his arm around her and pulled her close. Sophia’s heart skipped as the heat between them grew and they moved smoothly to the slow beat. She felt like she was on a cloud as they moved, heads tilted together cheek to cheek. The rest of the night was a blur, and before she knew it, they were headed home. Romeo held her hand as they drove, and the electricity between them was undeniable. Her insides were on fire.

She invited Romeo in for a nightcap. Standing on her balcony, they soaked in the warm night air and twinkling lights of the town. They toasted a successful evening, and as Sophia looked at Romeo, his smoldering hazel eyes threatened to burn a hole to her very core. He brushed a strand of hair from her face, and his touch created a charge of electricity that sent shivers down her spine. The heat of the night swirled around them both, and the fire that had been present all night consumed them as everything else faded to black.

Would you bare your soul about dating, love, sex and relationships to a group of strangers? One video marketer and sex-talk enthusiast, Jared Matthew Weiss, is counting on it. His latest endeavor involves encouraging strangers to crowd into a room, sit in a circle on the floor, and share intimate details of their love and sex lives.

This is the model of Touchpoint, a monthly series of group discussions about, well, everything. He launched Touchpoint in April and calls it a “town hall about how to date, partner, and have sex in the modern world.” And as intimidating as it might sound to open up about the most personal corners of your life in public, it seems that Touchpoint is striking a chord.

Weiss says, “I realized that people didn’t need a talking head, another figure to give them rules and regulations around how to date or have sex or whatever. What they actually needed was each other, that what we all need is a sense of community of conversation and exploration around the things that we really want.”

In April, Weiss called a friend and asked her to host the first Touchpoint town hall. Ten people gathered to sit in a circle and talk about how to bring BDSM into a relationship, a subject chosen by popular vote: When people RSVPed, they anonymously submitted questions; the day of the event, Weiss emailed the questions to attendees and asked them to vote on their favorites, then took the two most popular questions as the prompts for the evening. There was no scheduled speaker or expert, just Weiss acting as a moderator and calling on people as they raised their hands to voice their thoughts, a structure that holds today.

The following month, about 50 people showed up to Touchpoint. Weiss says that now, the monthly meetings see up to 100 attendees, and that 800 people have attended one in New York over the past six months. One-off events have been held in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Mexico City, and on November 22, the first Touchpoint Miami took place, with some 150 people in attendance. Weiss also runs a Touchpoint blog on Medium, where he publishes recaps of discussions and posts written by attendees. His guiding principle? “Ultimately, I think that my goal with every single one of these meetings is just create a space where people can discover that there’s more possible for them than when they got there,” he says. “The list of what we think is possible for us in terms of love, sex, and relationships is relatively short … What else is there out there for you if you aren’t afraid or ashamed?”

It’s Weiss’s hope that widespread yearning for the openness Touchpoint promotes — openness that people may not even have established with their closest friends — will propel its growth as he seeks to host larger gatherings in more cities. “People are in there, sitting there, and they’ve never heard people talk about these things out loud. I think that when we realize that that kind of vulnerability is met with love and interest and not shame or judgement, it can change the way we feel about ourselves, you know?”

Jaclyn Pollack, a Touchpoint attendee-turned-volunteer who first heard about the meetings through a networking group, appreciates the open-mindedness of the Touchpoint community. “When I went to the first one, I wasn’t sure what to expect — there’s only so much research you can do prior to going to a new event, especially one focused on sex, love, and relationships,” she says. “The whole thing about Touchpoint, which is what I really fell in love with, is that it’s just such an open and honest environment, and everybody is so present.

Touchpoint’s attendees tend to be 24 to 40 years old, Weiss says, and about two-thirds are female. When asked why this is, he says, “Part of being a man is not admitting you have to work on anything, right?” he shrugs. “It’s a very macho thing … Getting guys to show up to something that is around love and sex and specifically where people are just freely sharing and it’s with women, it just can be very intimidating.” He’s hopeful that the male contingent will continue to grow, and adds that the gatherings have already proven romantically successful for a number of people.

In 2017, Weiss plans to grow Touchpoint in New York City, introduce it to more locations, and expand the brand’s web presence. He says that the essence of the meetings, however, will remain the same. “Our mission at the beginning of each one is never to answer the questions that have been posed, because there are no answers,” he stresses. “If the question is, ‘How do I give feedback in bed without hurting my partner’s feelings?’, I don’t know if there’s going to be a definitive answer to that, right? But there’s going to be a lot of ideas and you’re going to just let that swirl around in your brain and then go back out into the world and see what you can make of yourself.” In the realms of love and sex, asking each other questions and exchanging responses without judgment might be the most — and the best — that any of us can do.

 

We all know that our Cowboys make fabulous companions for weekend getaways. Thrillist created a list of the 25 best cities to spend a weekend, and it just so happens that a few of their picks are the cities where we have men.

22. Philadelphia, PA

Must-eat/drink: Cheesesteak, duh. Get one at Pat’s. Or Geno’s. Or Pat’s. Wait, Geno’s. Aw heck, get one at both of these places.

Don’t leave without: While pics near the Rocky statue after you run up the art museum’s steps or at Pat’s and Geno’s in South Philly (aka “cheesesteak Vegas”) will probably generate the most interest on your social media feeds, if you want to quietly take in Philly’s cobblestone charm, snap up a sundae from Old City’s Franklin Fountain and stroll around the historic district. Or, head to Rittenhouse Square and read that book you’ve been meaning to finish while the city hums in the background.

Weekend highlights: Philly is more than Wing Bowl insanity, Rocky nostalgia, and gooey cheesesteaks; it’s a vibrant, unpretentious, blue-collar town and a perfect three-day destination. Between the world-class museums — the Barnes Foundation is a must-see — the gorgeous parks, peaceful walking trails, rockin’ live-music scene, and excellent food and drink, you will have a blast (even on a tight budget). In fact, with a little insider knowledge, you can find all kind of fun on the cheap. If you like a little culture mixed in with friendly comfort, Philly is the perfect place to visit

13. Chicago, IL

Must-eat/drink: A burger at Au Cheval

Don’t leave without: An architecture boat tour, closing down a 4am bar, catching some comedy, getting out of Downtown

Weekend highlights: If you’ve never been to Chicago, it’s understandable that there are certain obligatory boxes you’re going to want to check, which is fine. Get that selfie in front of the Bean before hitting a museum or the aquarium if you must. Take an architecture boat tour (actually a fantastic intro to Downtown and the lakefront). Hit Second City or iO for some world-class comedy, and (obviously) consume the local holy trinity of deep dish, Chicago-style dogs, and Italian beef.

But you’re doing yourself a serious disservice if you spend your whole weekend tethered to the Downtown area, because the neighborhoods are where you find the city’s true pulse. Head north to Wrigleyville if sports are your thing, or to Lincoln Square for some Half Acre beer and incredible pie if they aren’t. Head west and walk the 606, a repurposed discontinued train line linking four of the city’s most vibrant (and delicious) neighborhoods. Head south to Bridgeport for the White Sox, yes, but also for Maria’s, a hybrid beer bar/bottle shop some call a “slashie” that you won’t want to leave. Just don’t spend your whole weekend within a couple of blocks of Michigan Ave, because you’re better than that.

9. New York, NY

Must-eat/drink: Pastrami sandwich at Katz’s Deli

Don’t leave without: Waiting in line for the best smoked fish of your life at Russ & Daughters, drinking on a random person’s rooftop, visiting a weird museum, eating pizza in Brooklyn and dumplings in Queens, drinking at a dive bar until 4am, and ending a night at a 24-hour diner

Weekend highlights: You could spend a century in New York and still never eat, see, and do everything you’re “supposed to do.” You’ll probably feel compelled to eat at the city’s best restaurants and check things off your bucket list like burgers and pizza and cocktails, and you should by all means try a sampling of each of these — but there’s also a wealth of less-hyped activities and foods and drinks to be seen and had in New York City.

Go see “The Nasty Show” at the Comedy Cellar, a stage that everyone from Louis C.K. to Jerry Seinfeld has frequented, or check out one of our legendary live-music venues in Harlem. Eat your way through Chinatown for less than $5 and then ride the 7 train out to Flushing for the best wontons in hot chili oil of your life. Or, to see the Mets.

As for the other Met (the museum), if it feels stifling, go visit the Whitney or the Museum of the Moving Image instead. If it’s warm out, bike to the Cloisters or walk the Coney Island Boardwalk or head out to Rockaway for burgers on the beach. Before you drink cheap beer until close at a dive bar, treat yourself to one or two cocktails at a classic “old New York” bar that’ll transport you back to the ’20s. There are plenty of reasons to not spend your three-day trip waiting in line for speakeasies and Cronuts (though… those aren’t the worst ideas either…)

7. Las Vegas, NV

Must-eat/drink: Wicked Spoon buffet at The Cosmopolitan. It turned the “buffet” concept on its head by offering better food in smaller portions, including tender cuts of meat from an in-house butcher shop. The idea is to sample lots of different gourmet dishes, rather than scooping as much mashed potatoes and shrimp cocktail onto your plate as possible.

Don’t leave without: Getting some action. Las Vegas is the hookup capital of the world and you can be a scoundrel on the prowl even if you don’t have a spouse back home. Invest in a table at a nightclub, spend a mortgage payment on bottle service, and watch the eye candy magically wander in your direction. OMNIA at Caesars Palace is a good choice if you like big-name DJs and crazy stuff that hangs from the ceiling. Or you can save a few bucks and have an actual conversation (if you’re into that sort of thing) at a historic dive bar off the Strip. Even the lobby bars in the casinos are great spots to meet someone new, especially all three levels of the Chandelier bar at the Cosmopolitan. Just be careful your new friend isn’t looking for a business transaction. Despite popular misconception, brothels are limited to outside county limits.

Weekend highlights: Don’t blow all your vacation money on gambling. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of (maybe) scoring a big jackpot, but if you’re prone to rookie mistakes, stick to the penny slots. Speaking of mistakes… you’d be making one if you think everything in Vegas happens on the Strip. Make a detour Downtown where a new restaurant and nightlife boom is taking place. And if you need some peace and quiet, you’re just a short drive away from the mountains of Red Rock Canyon, the water of Lake Mead… and whatever you may or may not find at Area 51.

6. Miami, FL

Must-eat/drink: Ropa vieja and Cuban coffee. Go to Versailles in Little Havana for the true experience.

Don’t leave without: Spending as much time as you can on the beach, or at the very least going out on the water. Miami is a lot more than just South Beach now, too; in a weekend you can see some of the best street art in the world in Wynwood, feel like you’re in another country in Little Havana (or, if you’re adventurous, Hialeah), and get a big-city experience among the steel-and-glass towers of Brickell.

Weekend highlights: The Miami you know from rap videos isn’t really accessible unless, well, you’re a rapper. So don’t think you’ll be making it rain at strip clubs and rolling around in a Bugatti all weekend. Come to Miami to enjoy some of the best food, nightlife, and beaches in America, and absolutely pack your wallet. Next to Manhattan it’s the most expensive place in country to party. But, hey, at least the beach is free.

4. Austin, TX

Must-eat/drink: Brisket at La Barbecue

Don’t leave without: Swimming in Barton Springs, eating your weight in brisket, two-stepping unironically, and finding a new favorite band

Weekend highlights: Jaded old Austinites bemoan the fact that the city has become a revolving door of festival-goers, conference attendees, and bachelor party hooligans, but the reason Austin’s tourist economy has flourished in such a sometimes-frustrating manner is because it’s just such a damn nice place to spend the weekend. Its reputations as both the live music and barbecue capital of the world is well founded: you’ll find a dozen barbecue places that out-smoke most other major cities, and the wealth of local musical talent on any given night put even huge cities like New York or LA to shame.

Aside from barbecue, the food scene runs the gamut from chicken trailers to tweezer cuisine and approaches each style with a scrappy nature that you don’t see in more-established food cities. Beer fans will find a six-pack of fantastic breweries worth visiting, the cocktail scene is on the serious come-up, there’s no better place for sloppy bar-crawling outside of New Orleans or Memphis, and you can (and will) two-step with either a 75-year-old cowboy or a 25-year-old bearded dreamboat. In terms of non-gluttonous options, there’s a few solid historical stops to fill in the daytime hours (the state capitol building and LBJ Museum), but every minute not spent eating or drinking should probably be spent submerged in Austin’s antidote to triple-digit summer heat, Barton Springs.

3. San Francisco, CA

Must-eat/drink: Half-cracked crab and oysters from Swan Oyster Depot; literally any cocktail from Trick Dog

Don’t leave without: Wandering up one of the many random staircases that help you climb SF’s famous, tiring-as-hell hills. The Lyon steps in Cow Hollow, for example, put you right into the Presidio, and give you an Instagram-worthy view of the Golden Gate, Alcatraz, and the Bay. And the ones on 16th Ave are worth checking out too.

Weekend highlights: Yes, we know that the tech boom and influx of people during the last few years have created animosity for a specific type of selfish city-exploiting people (namely tech bros and compassionless landlords), and that most of the rest of the country now views us in the stereotypes of newspaper articles and tone-deaf letters to our mayor. But guess what? It’s still a damn amazing and unique city, with beautiful hills and vistas and eateries and architecture you can’t find anywhere else. We still have one of the best city parks in the world (Golden Gate) with acres of trails that spill you onto the most random things, like nerds in full knights’ armor practicing their crossbows and swordplay, and our buffaloes.

The Mission still has the smallest concentration of the best burritos in the world  (La Taqueria, El Farolito, etc.) and might actually be the best square mile to eat and drink in the United States. The Ferry Building feels like it should be a tourist trap selling SF sweatshirts and Alcatraz keychains, but instead offers up a dozen truly incredible eateries to hit before you cruise across the water to one of many postcard-worthy Marin towns. And speaking of tourists, if you want to play things that way, there are certainly worse things to do than eat fresh crab or bread bowls of chowder, or sip original Irish coffees in North Beach. Just avoid SoMa, bring a jacket, and embrace those hill-inflicted inevitable calf cramps, and you’ll be just fine.

1. Nashville, TN

Must-eat/drink: Hot chicken/a Goo Goo Cluster (or three) and a Bushwhacker at Edley’s

Don’t leave without: Going to church, and we mean the Mother Church
 
Weekend highlights: Nashville is rapidly becoming as synonymous with food as it is music — hello hot chicken and BBQ! — attracting as many celebrity chefs as musicians and plenty of opportunities for delicious collaborations. (Planning a trip in the fall? Check out Music City Food + Wine Festival, founding members include Kings of Leon and chef Jonathan Waxman.) Take a guided tour of all the foodie hotspots with Walk Eat Nashville, hop on a Nashville Brew Bus to explore the local craft breweries, or treat your party to whiskey tastings at nearby distilleries like Nelson’s Green Brier Distillery and Corsair Distillery.

Having a great time in Nashville doesn’t mean you have to deplete your savings. There are more than 150 venues in town and many of them offer live music every night for FREE. And the honky tonks on Lower Broad play all day long, too — just don’t forget cash for the tip jars. You can even catch a show while buying records at Grimey’s New & Preloved Music or attend a live-to-acetate recording at Jack White’s Third Man Records.

While you definitely should hit Ascend Amphitheater, a 6,800-capacity outdoor venue on the riverfront, if you want to take in a larger act, there’s no better sound in town than one coming from Ryman Auditorium. As for sports, depending on the season you’re visiting, you’ve got the Tennessee Titans, Nashville Predators, and the new 10,000-seat First Tennessee Park to enjoy a Nashville Sounds game. (Watch from the outfield on the patio of The Band Box with a frozen whiskey and Coke in hand. Just a suggestion.)

As you can see, lots of great choices for the cities where we have Cowboys. But don’t despair. If you want to go to one of the other cities, no problem. Our men can travel anywhere for a getaway when travel expenses are paid.

 

Source: https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/best-us-cities-to-spend-a-weekend-nashville-austin-charleston-providence