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The 5 Best Things About a Vacation Boyfriend

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You are planning for a vacation, but the whole thought of going to some fabulous destination by yourself just doesn’t sit well with you. Don’t torture yourself. Let Cowboys 4 Angels come to the rescue with the perfect vacation boyfriend who will be polite, attentive, charming, and fun – the ideal companion for any destination. Still questioning the logic? Well, here are the five best things about a vacation boyfriend to help with your decision-making.

  1. You don’t have time to be timid about asking for what you want or need. There is no long-term investment of time and energy in a relationship, so you don’t have to play a waiting game in hopes of “Let’s see if he gets it on his own.” No time for that. None. You can ask for and expect to receive the things you want and need. So don’t be shy about making them known. Cowboys may be many things, but they aren’t mind readers.
  2. He’ll likely see you at your perfectly manicured vacation hottest. And probably without even having to try. When most women go away for vacation, it’s like they’re really taking a vacation from the realities of life – being so busy with work and taking care of others that they have little time to take care of themselves. Your vacation boyfriend sees the vacation you – freshly bikini-waxed, pedicured and tan with soft beachy waves in your hair. He doesn’t know that this is basically a mirage, and he never will. Let him think this is you all the time.
  3. You are racking up some serious fantasy and masturbation material you can carry with you for months. Maybe years if his body is as flawless as his pictures. You have dreamed about doing this for a very long time, and now that time is here. Revel in having it be the perfect boyfriend experience you thought it would be, and ride that wave into the sunset. You can relive the experience, moment by moment, for many years to come. The investment in yourself pays dividends over and over and over again.
  4. You don’t have to worry about running into him at the grocery store after you break up and trying to make chitchat. Your vacation boyfriend is only in the present moment. There is no history or baggage associated with him. There are no unrealistic expectations. This experience is simply in the here and now with no awkwardness later. If you want to see him again, you get to choose the when and where.
  5. If either of you have fibbed about anything, damned if you’ll ever know. In relationships, you get to know the person over time and you start realizing, “This guy is full of it about a lot of things,” and then you decide whether to keep dating or not. But with vacation boyfriends, the whole experience is a fantasy. Maybe Casper wasn’t quite a star athlete in college or a runway model for Calvin Klein, but you don’t know that for sure and honestly, who cares. He is gorgeous. He has a body that rocks. And he is laser focused on you. Nothing else really matters, so enjoy it. Similarly, if you’ve fibbed about anything, he’ll never know either.

Cowboy in poolSo there you have it. There really don’t appear to be any downsides here. But the very best thing about having a Cowboy as your vacation boyfriend is that you can hand select him for another vacation or event whenever you want. And we are sure that after the first time, you will definitely want more.

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Holidays in the Big Apple

Lana was determined to enjoy this weekend getaway to New York City. After working 60-hour weeks for three months to close the biggest deal of her career, she was burned out. She was looking forward to recharging with the excitement and buzz of the city, especially in this lead up to the holidays.

4b61eb3451e51As she settled into her hotel room, her mind wandered to the greatest gift of this weekend – the male companion she arranged through Cowboys 4 Angels. Her crazy work schedule didn’t leave much time for socializing, let alone dating, but she did not want to spend the weekend by herself. She was looking forward to enjoying the city with Trevor at her side. He is a fine specimen of a man with piercing blue eyes that Lana looks forward to getting lost in.

As she finished touching up her makeup, she heard the knock at her door, and her heart skipped a beat. Time to get out and enjoy the city! Opening the door, Lana’s eyes beheld the man of her earlier musings. His 6’2” body filled the door frame as he greeted her with a rose. He looked even better in person, and Lana felt her insides do a flip. Trevor took her hand and they were off for an evening on the town.

First stop Gramercy Tavern for dinner. As they strolled into the restaurant, Lana felt like a million bucks. She could see people looking and her and Trevor, and she reveled in the attention. Trevor pulled out her seat for her at their table and kissed her cheek as she settled into the seat. Conversation flowed easily as they feasted on Chicken and Mushroom soup, Pork loin, and custard pie with cherry sauce and bourbon ice cream. They toasted her successful business deal with wine as they chatted about Trevor’s Canadian heritage and his love of car racing, a passion they shared.

As Trevor helped her into the car after dinner, Lana felt a lightning bolt of electricity go through her when he held her hand. She looked into his blue eyes and felt the heat spread throughout her body. She fought to steady her breathing as the headed to their next destination. No holiday trip to new York City would be complete without a viewing of the tree at Rockefeller Plaza and some ice skating. Lana started to protest.

“I haven’t ice skated since I was a child,” she said.

“Well then time to do it again,” Trevor replied. “Besides, it’s just like riding a bike, and I will help you.”

They decided to do the ice skating first and then look at the tree and display windows. After lacing their skates, Trevor helped Lana to her feet. She gripped his hand tightly to keep her balance. As they started to skate around the rink, Lana could remember the feeling as a child, and it was a little like riding a bike. As they glided across the ice, Lana felt Trevor slide his hand around her waist to help keep her steady. She leaned against him, drinking in the smell of his cologne. After a while, the cold had Lana shivering. Trevor took her hands in his and blew on them to help warm them up. Lana felt herself get warm all over.

They grabbed a quick hot chocolate before their walk. As they strolled hand-in-hand around the plaza looking at the window displays and tree, Lana felt completely relaxed for the first time in months. A she soaked in the scenery nestled against Trevor, she could feel herself getting into the Christmas spirit.

They arrived back at the hotel, and Lana could feel the drain of the day’s activities on her. She leaned on Trevor as they rode the elevator up to the room. One inside, she slipped off her boots. That little bit of ice skating had her feeling sore. To soothe her aching muscles, Trevor massaged her shoulders and neck and then her feet. Lana felt like her whole body was on fire. The heat between them steamed the cold window to the outside, shutting out the rest of the city for the night.

Trevor male companionSquinting to adjust to the morning light filtering through the curtains, Lana stretched to finish the waking process. As she did, she could see across the room Trevor had breakfast all set out for her. He had a full schedule planned for the day, so she would need her energy.

The day was a whirlwind as they toured the 9-11 Memorial, the Museum of the Intrepid, and took in an afternoon performance of The Rockettes at Radio City Music Hall. After a brief stop at the hotel to change for dinner, the headed out to the Bourbon Street Bar and Grille, followed by the Broadway musical The Lion King. After the show, they strolled Times Square. The city was alive and buzzing, and Lana could feel the energy of the city in her. She felt safe exploring the city with Trevor at her side.

They picked up dessert to take back to the room where they could relax. Snuggled together, they watch the twinkling of the city lights as they had a nightcap and ate their dessert. Trevor smoothed a strand of hair away from her eye and ran his finger across her lower lip to wipe a stray bit of chocolate. Lana’s insides melted. His smoldering eyes met hers and the heat flared around them. The rest of the city faded and Lana’s whole body flushed as the curtain closed on a day of fun and a night of pure romance.

In the taxi to the airport, Lana was back in work mode, making calls to line up her next deal. But she carried the relaxation of the weekend home with her as she remembered Trevor and the total bliss of her trip. She just might have to visit the Big Apple again sometime for another round of fun.

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Welcome To the Erogenous Zone

A recent article listed the top eight erogenous zones on a woman’s body. Check out this list and see which one you identify with. Which of these zones really ignites your hot spot? Don’t be shy about telling your man if he happens to hit one of your spots. Better yet, don’t be shy about cluing him in to what your E zones are.

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Behind the Knees

Thinner skin and plenty of nerve endings behind the knees mean that the right touch here (think kissing, finger trailing, massaging) can send sensations straight up your thighs and into a serious hot spot.

The Scalp

The best part of a haircut: The scalp massage. Am I right? In between wash-and-blows, ask your male companion to make your nerve-ending-filled scalp a priority. Having him rub this area will release tension and increase blood flow — both key elements of stimulation.

The Ears

That old blowing-in-the-ear move is often more silly than seductive, but kissing, gentle sucking or even a tender, well-placed lick can be quite tantalizing in the ear area. Also, don’t forget the exhilaration potential of a Cowboy’s soft whisper in your ear.

The Lips

There’s a reason that making out in high school made you feel electric, and it’s not just because you were overly dramatic about everything back then. The lips are one of the most erotic spots on your body; because they have more nerve endings than most any other part of your body. Just five minutes of kissing, especially if you vary the technique (slow, fast, a flitting tongue) — can make any experience extra stimulating.

The Neck

Let’s admit that we’ve all read Twilight.  Vampires are onto something with necks. They’re curved, lovely and highly sensual, plus they can be approached from behind. Our Cowboys suggest light kisses leading from your hairline to the nape of your neck?

Wrists

Seeing a trend? The pulse points where you might spritz a bit of fragrance (neck, knees) are on this list because they’re extra sensitive, with nerve endings close to the surface of the skin, and wrists are no exception. A light nuzzle here can rev you up, and the best part is, it’s a move that your man can do in public with no one any the wiser.

Breasts

Shocker: Nipples are responsive to all types of caressing. Because they’re so filled with nerve endings, sometimes they get too stimulated. Just be sure you communicate about the level of touching that you like; it varies alot between women.

The Clitoris

You knew we’d get there, and no surprise here. With the densest concentration of nerve endings of any part of the body, the clitoris is your most erogenous zone. Many women (70 to 80 percent according to research) orgasm only through direct clitoral stimulation. Let’s face it: The clitoris is basically the the Big O Jackpot!

So what’s your take on this research? Do you agree with the list of eight? Do you have any spots you want to add to the list?  Let us know!

Care For a Game of 20 Questions?

You have dreamed about this for years, and now you are finally doing it! One problem – your stomach feels like it’s competing in a gymnastics competition it’s doing so many flip flops. We know it can be somewhat nerve-wracking figuring out how to feel comfortable with your male companion. What will you talk about? What if there is silence? Will you be able to connect? Will you have things in common?

Dylan-listingRest easy! Cowboys4Angels is here to save the day with some tips! Despite everything you have read or fantasized about your Cowboy, he is simply a human being, just like you. They all have family, pets, hobbies, dreams, goals and fantasies just like everyone else.

Don’t stress over what to talk about. Instead, make a game out of it to make things fun and sexy. Take a page out of the book of the game “20 Questions” and put a sexy twist on it.

Below is a sample 20 questions you could ask your companion in order to spur further conversation. Better yet, get him involved in asking you some of the questions too!

  1. Do you like talking naughty?
  2. Have you ever skinny dipped?
  3. How old were you when you first French kissed a girl? Did you dribble?
  4. What kind of outfit would look best on me?
  5. What do you wear when you go to bed?
  6. What’s your favorite fantasy?
  7. What’s your idea of good foreplay?
  8. What’s your favorite part of a woman’s body and why?
  9. Do you think we would do something funny if we got drunk together?
  10. What is the sexiest outfit that turns you on?
  11. Do you like using props in the bedroom?
  12. What defines a sexy woman to you?
  13. How and where do you like being touched the most?
  14. What’s the ultimate role play for you?
  15. What’s the boldest thing you’ve ever done through texting?
  16. What turns you on almost instantly?
  17. What is your favorite type of lingerie?
  18. Did you experiment to learn what you’re attracted to?
  19. What’s your favorite thing about the opposite sex?
  20. What’s the worst thing about being your gender?

It may feel strange at first to ask such personal questions, but these questions will help lead to other topics of conversation. Have fun with them! Don’t be shy or embarrassed. Nothing ventured; nothing gained. So learn everything you want to learn about your Cowboy. We’re sure they’re up for the game to learn more about you as well.

So what are you waiting for? Brush up your questions and schedule your appointment for a fun-filled adventure!

Garren James

The Perfect Gentlemen Escort

Garren James
Garren James

Today, we want you to get to know Garren James, owner & CEO of the country’s premiere gentleman male companion service, Cowboys4Angels, as he shares what makes his guys the perfect gentlemen. He knows what women want, and he ensures his cowboys do to. Whether you’re in Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, or Dallas, or really anywhere in the world, if you book one of Garren’s Cowboys, you’ll have one of the most unforgettable experiences of your life.

 Women want a man to be attentive, respectful, and overall, a gentleman, and that’s what these men are. Here are a few things Garren has taught his gigolos, and trust us, it’s EXACTLY what women want:

  • Shower a woman with compliments but NEVER lie to her. It’s important to give many compliments about what is amazing about a woman.  Their smile or their laugh.  All women are beautiful in their own way. 
  • Listen to them. They don’t just want answers to their problems but they want to be heard and understood. When you book your gentlemen male companion companion, you are booking a man who knows how to listen.
  • It’s all about YOU. When you’re with a cowboy, they won’t pay attention to that other woman that just walked across the room. When you are with you, you get their undivided attention.
  • Your male companion for the day, night, week, whatever you chose, will not make you a second priority to his cellphone when out on a date. Like a true gentleman, he keeps his phone in his pocket.
  • Chivalry is not only still alive and well but is extremely important. Cowboys4Angles men open all doors for you. They hold your hand. Push in your chair. If you’re cold, they offer you their jacket for warmth. This is how a real man who treats a woman with the respect and dignity she deserves.
  • And lastly, if one of our lovely ladies is ever going through a tough time, you can always trust that your gentleman male companion will let you know that everything is going to be okay. In the end we want to make sure our clients have a smile on their face.

So once you have your male companion booked, get ready to experience true chivalry. Trust us – there is nothing quite like it. XO

Garren James Gigolos

SexTalkTuesday Twitter Chat Phenomenon!

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Garren James

As the owner and creator of Cowboys4angels, the largest straight male companion companion company in the United States, I get a lot of media requests to be part of radio, television and Internet broadcasts. I’ve got more than 10 years of matchmaking experience under my belt, and my straight male companion agency has been going strong for more than seven years already. I try to be selective when choosing which media opportunities to accept because I recognize that there are a lot of outlets with preconceived notions about what other people should do with their lives, or hidden agendas in need of somebody to ambush. That’s why I am so stoked about one particular upcoming appearance I am planning to make as part of the #SexTalkTuesday twitter chat phenomenon!

 

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Garren James Gigolos

Sex Talk Tuesday is a sex positive forward thinking organizations designed to gather people together to discuss the realities of modern human sexuality, and all of the complexities that come with non-traditional dating, polyamorous lifestyles, an open minded approach to sex and more.

Unlike my recent appearances on The Dr. Phil Show, 20/20, Nightline News, NatGeo Taboo, TLC, and the Tyra Banks Show – I won’t be on #SexTalkTuesday to defend what I do, so much as I intend to be there to share intimate details and discuss why I do what I do… and why so many people love what I do.

As the sole creative consultant on the Gigolos show on Showtime which is now entering its 7th season,  one of the things I have learned is that the misconceptions about companioning remain entrenched in many people’s minds even after they have been properly disproven with actual facts and real life experiences. That’s why I believe it is crucial to continue putting the message out there, that what we do has merit and value to a very large portion of the population with zero detriment to anyone who rightfully chooses to engage in any other kind of love that suits their interests better.

 

Garren James
Garren James

Cowboys4angels has received more than 10,000 employment requests over the years and still only represents about 70 men across the entire country because our goal is to represent the most elite male companion companions for women. Whether it’s an elegant dinner date, or a special event, women count on Garren James and the Cowboys4angels team to provide an experience they will always adore.

Join me on August 4th 2015 and be part of Sssh.com’s #SexTalkTuesday, where the questions you want to ask will be answered, and many questions you didn’t know to ask will be raised as well. Rather than telling people what to think, #SexTalkTuesday helps show people a more beneficial way of thinking and that makes this personal appearance a very important one on my schedule.

Jacquelyn’s 40th Birthday Party

San Francisco male companionThat week in the office, there was a reason why Jacquelyn’s blissful glow was so obvious.  Bidding farewell to her thirties, her best friend Nikki threw a surprise birthday party of the century in honor of the big 4-0 surrounded by hot male companions of the San Francisco persuasion. The story you are about to read put the S back in sexy for Jacquelyn’s world as she knew it.

Nikki was quite the party animalista with a libido that never quit.  Along with a verve for passionate living, she had a penchant for gorgeous, intelligent male companions in the San Francisco Bay area. Nikki and Jacquelyn owned a business together and coined the definition of workaholics. So when it came time for sensual pleasure, the ideal solution was to surround themselves with hot male hunks for activities ranging from corporate conventions to lavish dinners to private sleepovers. Even so, Jacquelyn was not quite as ambitious as Nikki when it came to satisfying shall we say her feminine desires.

Void of shyness, Nikki jumped on the phone with her buddies at Cowboys 4 Angels male companion service to arrange a fleet of hot male companions

To serve up for Jacquelyn on a yummy birthday platter. It would be a rather intimate soiree (at first), a gathering of six ladies including Nikki and the birthday girl. For dessert, she requested the presence of Blake, Joseph and Randall, a triple scoop of flavorful San Francisco male dancers to satisfy the cravings of all the girls.

To Jacquelyn’s knowledge, these bon vivants des femmes were to satiate their lust for fine dining at the Bay area’s revered Atelier Crenn, a rather noble way to ring in the forties. Little did she know what naughty masculine morsels of male companions Nikki had up her skirt. Following a succulent dinner of elegant cuisine and superb wine pairing, Jacquelyn suspected that the night had come to a close. But as they all piled into the limousine,  Nikki cracked open a bottle of Veuve and announced that they would all go to her flat for a ‘night cap’.  (She had arranged between Cowboys 4 Angels and the concierge for these delicious male companions to prepare for their show in advance.)

San Francisco straight male companionWhen they reached Nikki’s apartment, the ladies were greeted by a handsome butler who welcomed them into the home

Strange.  Jacquelyn didn’t recall Nikki having a butler. But then she noticed a bulge in just the right place and quickly abandoned the question as her attention was grabbed by another suave gentleman arranging champagne glasses in the dining room.  Greeted by promising hugs and warm smiles, the two male companions Blake and Joseph quickly surrounded Jacquelyn and whisked her off into the living room. As the other ladies salivated over the scene of two gorgeous male companion hunks lavishing Jacquelyn with attention, a third slice of male heaven appeared.

 

Nikki matter-of-factly slipped away into the bedroom only to return in a silk negligee as the other ladies feasted their eyes on Randall. They all talked about this, that and the other as adrenaline raced and erotic energy sizzled. Just as relaxed as these hot male companions appeared, the three gentlemen began to slowly remove their clothing as candidly as could be. By now, each of the ladies was sipping champagne and nibbling on chocolate covered strawberries while seductive music resounded throughout the flat.

 

Nikki was playing the voyeur. She fulfilled her own private indulgence in the sensuous scenario that was watching her girlfriends being pleasured

San Francisco boyfriend experiencein ways that the reader is free to fantasize. And then there was Jacquelyn. It is quite possible that this timid yet successful business woman was about to tip the scales in what should occur only in the private quarters of the boudoir.  Though the focus was on Jacquelyn’s birthday, Nikki had another agenda as her arousal increased just watching the scene rise in temperature. While these exotic male dancers swayed to the rhythmic beat of the music, loafers, ties and trousers slowly stripped as Jacquelyn’s hands explored their manly terrain.

Honestly, things weren’t meant to get as heated as they did but girls will be girls. Eventually, Jacquelyn slipped away hand-in-hand with Joseph to study the stars from the private terrace in the guest bedroom and enact their own birthday script. As the lock quietly clicked, Nikki chuckled for she knew that Joseph was just Jacquelyn’s type.

San Francisco Hot male companionIn the living room beyond, the ladies were having their way with Blake and Randall

intermixed with witty conversation and sips of champagne. Nikki knew how to entertain but she never imagined the hedonistic side that her girlfriends revealed with these gods of exotic perfection.

We’ll never know the intimate details of what ensued as Nikki drew the curtains for utmost privacy and escaped to her own chambers where Alexander patiently awaited her company.